Well, there are many reasons why we like a person and consider him/her our best friend. One important thing is she/he understands you. Even though you sometimes speak without thinking, she / he still thinks it's understandable. She understands you and the way you think, so that you don't have to apologise all the time.
She should also be someone whom you can talk about anything. She shouldn't be the one who will defame you. She should be the one who try to correct you when you are wrong, and not tell everybody about your blunder or every mistake that you made.
Another characteristic that a best friend should have is that she / he should like you for what you are... not because of your position, wealth, etc..etc... and you should be at ease when sitting near her and most importantly , you can tell anything to her without worrying about the effect of your conversation...
Well , after all , we talk to one another to release our tension. So, be happy....
and remember...In order to have a good friend , be one.
P.S. Here are some comments I found somewhere in the internet...http://answers.yahoo.com/question ....on the characteristics of a good friend..
- a best friend is someone you are comfortable around, you may have different opinions but you just laugh at the other one and go on. You want the best for that person and you are willing to allow them space to be who they are!
- Someone you don't have to say sorry to.
Someone you can be yourself with. Someone you may not necessarily agree with but would never condemn
Someone who is there when it all goes belly-up for you.
Above all, someone who likes you for YOU.
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