Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Good Friend or Bad?

Well today,I am going to talk about the characteristics of a good friend. Who do you consider your good or best friend? How or Why do you say that person is your best friend?

    Well, there are many reasons why we like a person and consider him/her our best friend. One important thing is she/he understands you. Even though you sometimes speak without thinking, she / he still thinks it's understandable. She understands you and the way you think, so that you don't have to apologise all the time.

     She should also be someone whom you can talk about anything. She shouldn't be the one who will defame you. She should be the one who try to correct you when you are wrong, and not tell everybody about your blunder or every mistake that you made.

     Another characteristic that a best friend should have is that she / he should like you for what you are... not because of your position, wealth, etc..etc... and you should be at ease when sitting near her and most importantly , you can tell anything to her without worrying about the effect of your conversation...

      Well , after all , we talk to one another to release our tension. So, be happy....
and remember...In order to have a good friend , be one.

P.S. Here are some comments I found somewhere in the internet...http://answers.yahoo.com/question  ....on the characteristics of a good friend..

-  a best friend is someone you are comfortable around, you may have different opinions but you just laugh at the other one and go on. You want the best for that person and you are willing to allow them space to be who they are!
-    Someone you don't have to say sorry to.
     Someone you can be yourself with.
     Someone you may not necessarily agree with but would never condemn
     Someone who is there when it all goes belly-up for you.
     Above all, someone who likes you for YOU.

  • Fun, understanding, and always someone to lean on.
  • The best friend is one who never tells your secrets, cheers you when you're sad, helps you when you need, talks to you about anything and especially when no one else will, never lies to you, always trustworthy and loyal, never deserts you, and is happy to be your friend.

  • Acronym for Friend....

    (A)ccepts you as you are
    (B)elieves in "you"
    (C)alls you just to say "HI"
    (D)oesn't give up on you
    (E)nvisions .....
    (F)orgives your mistakes
    (G)ives unconditionally
    (H)elps you
    (I)nvites you over
    (J)ust "be" with you
    (K)eeps you close at heart
    (L)oves you for who you are
    (M)akes a difference in your life
    (N)ever Judges
    (O)ffer support
    (P)icks you up
    (Q)uiets your fears
    (R)aises your spirits
    (S)ays nice things about you
    (T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
    (U)nderstands you
    (V)alues you
    (W)alks beside you
    (X)-plains thing you don't understand
    (Y)ells when you won't listen and
    (Z)aps you back to reality

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